Top Love Guidelines Relationship Tips
December 27, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationships
Whether your intimate relationship is new or you have been making love together for many years, there are always ways to
re-ignite passion that was once there and rekindle a feeling of closeness. Sometimes, it’s just takes one small step to move toward the love you want. Go for fighting boredom in relationships
Love making tips for sweet couples:
Share your desires with your lover. Maybe its a new thing to talk about a topic other than your kids, your work, what to eat for dinner, or what to do that weekend. When you talk about what your love-making desires, choose a time when you are alone and not distracted by the television or computer. Speak from your heart and without blame. Let your intention be to create a closer, more loving connection with your partner.
Listen to your lovers wants. Be open and encouraging with your partner as he or she shares love-making desires. Keep your heart open and let go of judgment when listening. We all get triggered occasionally so this can take some practice. Listen from a place of love for your partner and tune in to see how you feel about what he or she is sharing with you. If you arent open to the idea, search yourself to find out why and pay attention to what thoughts come up. If you are open to the new suggestions, try them out!
Try to make yourself change. This doesnt have to include an expensive salon visit! Create a beautiful, loving space for your intimate time together. All it may take is to rearrange the furniture in your bedroom or other space and get rid of the clutter. A portable cd player in the space with some passionate music could be all it takes to ignite both of you. Leave those old sweats and worn bathrobe in the closet. Choose what you wear (or dont wear) with care and love. Your intimate time is sacred. Treat it that way.
Create ways to build trust between the two of you. You know your situation. Ask yourself, “What would have to happen to build more trust between the two of us?” Click here to know more on talk about your fantasies
“What would I have to do and what would the other person have to do to feel closer?”
Would you need to “soften” and open, letting go of fears that you’ve brought from other relationships?
Would you have to let go of being right?
Would you need to ask with an open loving heart about a partner’s reaction–and then be open to hearing what’s truly there.
Intimacy is so much more than bedroom techniques. It’s the very fabric of the way we live our lives in every moment.




