Human interactions, both online and real life consists of many expressions such as giving and receiving gifts, compliments, thanks and, of course, apologies. No matter how long you know a person or how much you love him/her there are always misunderstandings, hurtful words and actions that demand a heartfelt apology to save the relationship. I am not sure if it is French who say “If woman is wrong – it’s the man who should say sorry”.
Most western men dating Chinese women online would agree that most girls are pleasant and great fun to be with. However, as you grow closer friction due to living in different time zones, language barrier and cultural differences is quite inevitable. So, one fine day, even before you realize, you put your foot in your mouth and end up rubbing your Chinese girlfriend the wrong way.
Now I have no idea why sorry seems to be the hardest word for a man to say. Is it because he stands to lose his face? When it comes to romantic relationship with woman of your dreams, ability to say “I am sorry” makes any man, a real man. So if you have messed up and regret that, go ahead, be as sweet as you can be and express your apologies, with cards, flowers or anything that will make your girlfriend feel good.
Now, I am not talking about sending expensive gifts to make up. There are Chinese women who manipulated guys into feel guilty in order to receive gifts from them. The point is not to let a relationship go down the drain just because you allowed your ego to get in the way of apologizing.
The best way, however, is to avoid all unnecessary arguments and fights. All women, Chinese, American or African, nag and complain every now and then. So the best thing is to develop the ability to listen to your wife or girlfriend without losing temper.
Are you seeking beautiful Chinese women for dating? Then www.chinalovematch.net is your perfect destination. CoCo Chen writes dating articles with dating success tips to help you find your perfect Chinese match.
Read More From Chinalovematch
|
